As I mentioned in my previous post “INFJ Decisions and INFP Options,” folks with a J preference tend to like structure and to make decisions to settle matters. Folks with a P preference, on the other hand, like to be more flexible. My wife and I (INFP and INFJ, respectively) have influenced each other over the years. She has incorporated more structure into her life, and I am (I hope) a little more flexible. I guess it just goes to show you that sometimes people with different preferences (let’s say 1 or 2) can still make beautiful music together. Corny, I know, but true. Happy Valentine’s Day.