I don’t just extravert my Feeling, quite often I gush. This leaves me self-conscious, embarrassed, feeling like I’ve said or done too much, or strangely, that my intensity/enthusiasm made me sound insincere.
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you hit the nail on the proverbial head
because the majority of folks don’t emote like we do, they may not believe we are genuine, when in fact, we are almost incapable of being inauthentic 🙂
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Linda, thanks so much for identifying with that. I’m not crazy, then.
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I experience this too,,,and have had people give me that weird look on their face. Now i have learned to only gush around people that really know me. It’s hard being inauthentic as an INFJ and it’s such a skill to moderate ourselves, a still like a bit of gush though as i think it’s a special quality 🙂
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I feel exactly the same way. Thank you.
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I do this a lot too! I gush and everything is lovely or magical or oh my gosh! And then I wonder if my friends or family think I’m trying out for the role of a new Disney character. And yetthis trait is amazing. We’re sincerely easily touched people 🙂
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Love your comment about the Disney character. 🙂 Yes, we are warm and caring folk. Thank you for stopping by.
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